These aren't really coherent thoughts, but I wanted to present a short list of things I've learned in my 25 years while I'm feeling kind of reflective.
- Your heroes, even your biggest, most larger-than-life heroes, are people. They will make mistakes, and not always own them, and sometimes that will be okay.
- Asking how someone is doing, and genuinely being interested in the answer, is one of the easiest things you can do to show you care.
- You are under no obligation to make other people happy.
- This is not open season to be a dick, though.
- I am HORRENDOUSLY uncool. Accepting that you are uncool is the first step in living a slightly more liberated life.
- Sometimes self-care sucks: drink some water, take a shower, get out of bed, go to the doctor. It's good for you.
- Sometimes self-care is great: bake cookies, eat cookies, take a bubble bath, pet a puppy. It's good for you.
- Fighting is exhausting. Have fun with it or you'll burn out.
- WEAR COMFORTABLE SHOES AND SUNSCREEN.
- See #8.